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An Apology to my Husband’s Beard
This is my husband’s beard: I had a hard time learning to appreciate this beard, and there are a number of reasons for that. First of all, my husband is a handsome guy. He has perfect little white teeth and dimples and he’s really quite stunning with a five o’clock shadow, or a chin strap.…
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I Married an Undocumented Immigrant: Executive Action
Last night, the president announced that he was taking executive action to shield some 5 million undocumented immigrants from deportation for the next 3 years. He did not offer a path to citizenship for any segment of the population, but predictably, cries of amnesty rang out across the internet. But a midst the cries of…
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15 Tips for the Holidays
It’s the most wonderful time of the year! But that can come with holiday stress, so make sure you check out the following gifs, I mean tips, to make your holidays happy: 1.) Spend lots of quality time with your loved ones. It’s supposed to look like this: 2.) But it won’t. Despite what…
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7 More Parenting
FailsAccomplishmentsIf you didn’t see my last embarrassing post, I’ve started cataloging some of my parenting missteps. And since parenting is hard and I’m an optimist, I like to frame them as accomplishments. 1.) When I came home from work the other day, Rafi greeted me with the news, “I pooped!” I responded with enthusiastic affirmation,…
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The Right-To-Die Effect
I didn’t want to write about Brittany Maynard, because it’s hard to disagree with someone who is dying of cancer and not look (and feel) like a big jerk. But here I sit, trying to write about something else, and I just keep coming back to her story. You’ve probably heard of Brittany. She is…
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God Is Love (Not a Democrat, and Not a Republican)

Midterm elections are swiftly approaching, and as usual, I am pretty clueless… in general, yes, but I meant about who should get my vote. Here’s why: In scrolling through my Facebook feed I came across an image of a fetus placed next to an image of a Latino teenager in a sombrero with a rifle…
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I Married an Undocumented Immigrant – Update

A little story about my husband receiving legal status in the USA.
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On Marriage, Mexicans, and Misunderstandings: I’m not a freaking bird.
First, let me state for the record that I love my husband and have never regretted our marriage, although it’s been a rough road at times. He is compassionate, sweet, intuitive, a great dad, brave, and smart in all the ways that I am not smart. But we fight a lot. Like really, a lot. …
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For Those Left Behind After Suicide

A few of my thoughts on God and mental health after the loss of my big brother to suicide.